Many single mothers aren't sure whether they should file for child support. In the end, it is a personal decision; however, there are several different factors that should be taken into consideration. Here are five key questions to ask before deciding whether toВ file for child support.
Are you in need to financial support to adequately provide for your child?
The child support system exists to ensure that children receive the financial support they need throughout their childhoods. If you depend on your ex to help you pay for shelter, food, clothing, medical care, and education, then it makes sense to formalize child support with the state.
Has yourВ child's father already filed for child custody?
If the father has already initiated a child custody case, and you have not yet filed for child custody, then it may be in yourВ best interests to do so now. Many states determine child support and child custody at the same time. Therefore, to avoid having to return to court for another court hearing, many single mothers opt to file for child support following the father's request for child custody. YouВ should also bear in mind that child support payments do not impactВ child custody or visitation determinationsВ in most courts.В In other words, even when theВ child's father does not pay child support regularly, the court may still determine that the child is entitled to generousВ visitationВ with the other parent.
Are you currentlyВ receiving government assistance?
If you are already receiving government assistance and the father's name is on your child's birth certificate, then the governmental will most likely seek to collect child support, either with or without your consent. Why? From the government's perspective, it's better to collect as much child support as possible from the father right at the beginning than to later support the child through public assistance. If this is the case, you may want to go ahead and file on your own.
Do youВ have a good relationship with the child's father?
In some cases, if you have a positive co-parenting relationship, it may not be necessary to formally file for child support. If you are already receiving financial support, you may not even be asking "Should I file for child support?"В
It is important to remember that adequate support is subjective. If a mother does not believe the support she's receiving meets the child's needs, she should consider initiating a child support action in court. The advantage of having court-ordered child support comes with the security inВ the legal system to enforce regular payments. The court will consider the following factors before ordering child support:В
- The financial resources of the parents
- The child's needs
- Other children borne to the parents who also need of support
Is the father expecting another child with someone else?
This is another important question. Many single moms decideВ to file for child support when they learn that the father is expecting another child with someone else. This is a practical decision, rather a vindictive one. The reason for filing at this time is because it's reasonable to expect that having another child will financially impact the child's father. As a result, he may not be able to provide the same level of voluntary financial support.В
For more information about child support,В refer to the child support guidelines in your state or speak with a qualified attorney.